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ISM's: Philosophies, Pitfalls, & Pratfalls 6/18
In the hopes of furthering each other's enlightenment, I'd like to share some writings on the interactions of differing belief systems. This first piece is by Rabbi Aron Moss, who is answering a question posed by a non-practicing "cultural Jew".
Judaism or Lennonism?
Question: I don't want my children to be small-minded or fundamentalist, so I haven't given them a Jewish education. They have been brought up without any religion; they are free to choose whatever beliefs they like. I try to live by the words of John Lennon:
Imagine there's no countries,
It isn't hard to do,
Nothing to kill or die for,
No religion too,
Imagine all the people
living life in peace...
Isn't that what life is about?
Answer: I admire your passion and idealism. You have obviously given some thought to your children's moral future, which is a credit to you. You are free to believe what you want and teach your children what you feel is right. But I don't see how you are any less closed-minded than any other fundamentalist. You say you have brought up your children without religion because you don't want to force your ideals on them. But that is forcing your ideals on them! By not learning about Judaism, they have not been given the choice to explore their identities at the time of their life that will influence them the most - their youth. They didn't choose that - you did. You have decided their religion for them. They are Lennonists whether they like it or not. And if that song is your bible, then they are being brought up in a much more closed-minded religion than Judaism. You have only quoted one verse. But I think the last verse of the song is the most revealing. There it is made clear that John Lennon's view of the world is as closed-minded as the most narrow extremist. He writes:
You may say I'm a dreamer,
But I'm not the only one.
I hope some day you'll join us,
And the world will live as one.
In other words, there is "you" and there is "us". You are the unenlightened ones. We have found the truth. But hopefully one day you will become one of us too. Only then can the world live as one. Sound familiar? Contrast this with Judaism's view that not everyone has to be Jewish. A non-Jew can live a perfectly fulfilling and meaningful life while remaining a non-Jew - they don't have to join us. What can make us live as one is the recognition that we are all created by the same G-d. But we don't all have to serve Him in the same way. We each choose a value system to live by and to teach our children. Whether you call it religion or something else makes little difference - it is a particular way of looking at the world. But can you imagine a religion that isn't so narrow to believe that everyone has to join it? It's easy if you try.
Here you see an interaction between a teacher of faith and someone who has bought the popular misconception that an absence of learning allows freer expression. If we fail to teach our children the foundations for lives as social beings within a community. We are abandonning them to search for themselves. They will either search, and find those who are very willing to indoctrinate our children into a culture we know will harm them; e.g.: a culture of death. Or they will go through life clinging to a primitive drive to merely survive and accumulate wealth at any cost, or drift through darkness without ever having been blessed by the divine. I'm not saying "ANY" faith is better than none. Certainly there are some that imbue the believer with the destructive and evil behaviors of hatred, bitterness and disrespect for life. We know the ones that do this. This above all is why we must liberate our children by giving them the gift of a solid foundation in a faith that allows them the freedom to reach for the impossible. It's my belief that acceptance of the presence of the Divine is essential to that end. This is just one more tiny confirmation of the existence of G-d; for without Him, nothing good is possible.
DM
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Question: I don't want my children to be small-minded or fundamentalist, so I haven't given them a Jewish education. They have been brought up without any religion; they are free to choose whatever beliefs they like. I try to live by the words of John Lennon:
Imagine there's no countries,
It isn't hard to do,
Nothing to kill or die for,
No religion too,
Imagine all the people
living life in peace...
Isn't that what life is about?
Answer: I admire your passion and idealism. You have obviously given some thought to your children's moral future, which is a credit to you. You are free to believe what you want and teach your children what you feel is right. But I don't see how you are any less closed-minded than any other fundamentalist. You say you have brought up your children without religion because you don't want to force your ideals on them. But that is forcing your ideals on them! By not learning about Judaism, they have not been given the choice to explore their identities at the time of their life that will influence them the most - their youth. They didn't choose that - you did. You have decided their religion for them. They are Lennonists whether they like it or not. And if that song is your bible, then they are being brought up in a much more closed-minded religion than Judaism. You have only quoted one verse. But I think the last verse of the song is the most revealing. There it is made clear that John Lennon's view of the world is as closed-minded as the most narrow extremist. He writes:
You may say I'm a dreamer,
But I'm not the only one.
I hope some day you'll join us,
And the world will live as one.
In other words, there is "you" and there is "us". You are the unenlightened ones. We have found the truth. But hopefully one day you will become one of us too. Only then can the world live as one. Sound familiar? Contrast this with Judaism's view that not everyone has to be Jewish. A non-Jew can live a perfectly fulfilling and meaningful life while remaining a non-Jew - they don't have to join us. What can make us live as one is the recognition that we are all created by the same G-d. But we don't all have to serve Him in the same way. We each choose a value system to live by and to teach our children. Whether you call it religion or something else makes little difference - it is a particular way of looking at the world. But can you imagine a religion that isn't so narrow to believe that everyone has to join it? It's easy if you try.
~*@*~
Here you see an interaction between a teacher of faith and someone who has bought the popular misconception that an absence of learning allows freer expression. If we fail to teach our children the foundations for lives as social beings within a community. We are abandonning them to search for themselves. They will either search, and find those who are very willing to indoctrinate our children into a culture we know will harm them; e.g.: a culture of death. Or they will go through life clinging to a primitive drive to merely survive and accumulate wealth at any cost, or drift through darkness without ever having been blessed by the divine. I'm not saying "ANY" faith is better than none. Certainly there are some that imbue the believer with the destructive and evil behaviors of hatred, bitterness and disrespect for life. We know the ones that do this. This above all is why we must liberate our children by giving them the gift of a solid foundation in a faith that allows them the freedom to reach for the impossible. It's my belief that acceptance of the presence of the Divine is essential to that end. This is just one more tiny confirmation of the existence of G-d; for without Him, nothing good is possible.
DM
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